tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6476828667893704794.post4987368954000216207..comments2024-03-24T03:21:12.336-04:00Comments on adventures of a masculine gay guy : I NEED ANSWERS ABOUT GOD AND HOMOSEXUALITYAverage gay dudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03042171594173497299noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6476828667893704794.post-14398066384409622812010-09-11T22:56:51.806-04:002010-09-11T22:56:51.806-04:00Every single one of you who wrote, I cant thank yo...Every single one of you who wrote, I cant thank you enough! You guys make me feel at such ease after reading your comments. <br /><br />fan of casey- My counselor actually gave me a list of gay friendly churches in my area so I am going to look into that. Keeping my options open is definitly key!<br /><br />Anonymous- I couldn't stop smiling after I read your comment :) Reading that was really cool to know that there are cities who are accepting of gay people(I though San Fran was the only one). I hope you keep reading my blog because your comments will be most appreciated!!<br /><br />Socrkid-Thanks man! Unfortunately the meeting didnt go so hot. :(<br /><br />Donncha- Thank you! You are right! I do need to start beleiving in myself instead of consulting others for their beliefs. I know I am gay, I know I was born gay, I know I will always be gay. <br /><br />Wolveriner- I think thats my biggest problem. I dont stand up for myself and what I believe so I fall into what others believe. But not this time. This is way to personal to no one is altering my beliefs on this.<br /><br />Archie- I couldnt agree more with this..."Talk to other gay men about this not to straight folk who if truth be told will not understand your issues." You are so right. I do need to start making gay friends as an outlet and a mindset familiar with my own. Thanks man!Average gay dudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03042171594173497299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6476828667893704794.post-59072650968461836642010-09-11T19:13:04.432-04:002010-09-11T19:13:04.432-04:00Hey AGD, it's a little disquieting not hearing...Hey AGD, it's a little disquieting not hearing a new post from you after your big day, i hope you are doing OK. Maybe you need some quiet time to process everything swirling around in your head, that's cool.fan of caseynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6476828667893704794.post-1702851757065824252010-09-10T10:33:53.387-04:002010-09-10T10:33:53.387-04:00I have never met a gay person who did not think th...I have never met a gay person who did not think they had been born that way. Whoever made you made you this way.<br /><br />I know from personal experience how difficult these things are to come to terms with. You need to look outside of your present environment for other sources of information and guidance and above all experience. <br /><br />Talk to other gay men about this not to straight folk who if truth be told will not understand your issues.<br /><br />I am not a practising christian but I was brought up as one and still have respect for the teachings of Christ as recorded in the gospels. Live your life acording to those and you will not go far wrong even if you end up as a non-beleiver. The gospels are ones of love for fellow men and say nothing about homosexuality. Those who preach at you for being who you are and were born are not following either the words or spirit of Christ.<br /><br />be happy and do good to others and love them. Do not fear or hate yourself that will only lead you to waste your life which is a gift from God. <br /><br />Good luckarchienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6476828667893704794.post-3135059115846024952010-09-09T00:21:03.417-04:002010-09-09T00:21:03.417-04:00you come across as a real smart guy so evaluate th...you come across as a real smart guy so evaluate the messages you receive rationally. If you want a spiritual guidance who'll alleviate your troubles, that's fine, but don't let people alter your belief system and don't let other put you down so you fall into their system.torontomenatworkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00224224959087834490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6476828667893704794.post-80823548335350607282010-09-08T18:51:54.916-04:002010-09-08T18:51:54.916-04:00OMG, please don't listen to that Bullshit, Sat...OMG, please don't listen to that Bullshit, Satan or the church have nothing to do with the fact that you were born gay, As if filling your head with lies is a "good and christian" to do. All these churches want to do is control you and your thoughts. You come across as a really nice guy and what you are going through is really hard, but believe in yourself, You know you are gay and that's the way you came out of the packet.donnchahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15292107013277556040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6476828667893704794.post-40059745958670100482010-09-08T18:29:32.614-04:002010-09-08T18:29:32.614-04:00im sure you did great on your test and hope the me...im sure you did great on your test and hope the meeting with the preacher went well :) <br /><br />ps-liking the new profile picturesocrkid17https://www.blogger.com/profile/11555526517181969629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6476828667893704794.post-36400085561326452472010-09-08T14:40:40.810-04:002010-09-08T14:40:40.810-04:00OMG, dear young man. How I pity you. Not for bein...OMG, dear young man. How I pity you. Not for being gay. (Being gay is just as normal as being left-handed.) I pity you for having had the bad luck to be born and raised in the Bible-belt of Florida. Work toward getting out of there as soon as you can! If you'd been born, for example, in Seattle or Portland you'd have grown up with wonderfully stable, manly homosexual men all around you. And you would have lived among people who understand that it is not the gay person who is screwed up... it's a society which still lives in the Dark Ages that continues to see gays and lesbians as unacceptably different.<br />If that minister helps you by supporting your passage through this difficult stage in your life, confide in him. If he tries to dump his Devil Talk on you, stop seeing him and trust in your new school counseller.<br />You come across as a healthy, bright, kind young man.<br />This difficult stage will soon pass.<br />Try to be patient.<br />The world is full of young men and women going through this difficult time in their lives. There IS happiness and light at the end of the tunnel.<br />Get your butt out to the beautiful Pacific Northwest!<br />Hey, your husky dog will even be happy!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6476828667893704794.post-14612949483195922372010-09-08T01:37:21.738-04:002010-09-08T01:37:21.738-04:00AGD: People will tell you a lot of things, you'...AGD: People will tell you a lot of things, you'll have to evaluate and sort things out as best as you can. There are other christian churches that accept gays as they are, without resorting to this fear mongering so you may want to get another perspective as well. So try not to limit your options. College is great time to explore yourself and expand your horizons as long as you keep an open mind.fan of caseynoreply@blogger.com