Wednesday, June 15, 2016

The CrossFit Instructor

So this is definitely one of my more questionable life choices LOL

Yesterday I worked until 11PM and as soon as I got home, I made a big bowl of pasta and red sauce. I sat at the kitchen counter, replying to all the text messages I had received throughout the day and than I decided to tap on the Tinder app...

...a decision that unbeknownst to me at the time, would change my entire night.

I matched with a guy and he immediately shot me a message. He was a beautiful Ecuadorian guy, who was in town visiting his brother, who works at one of the poshy beach resorts along A1A. He was also 25, 5'10", graduated with an engineering degree, teaches CrossFit and wants to move to Florida in November.

Tonight was his last night here in the states, so he asked me if I wanted to hangout. It was already 11:45 at night and the Beach Resort he was at was 30 minutes South, but I agreed. I thought it would be fun to talk to a guy who's not only intelligent, but super attractive and lives in another country.

I jumped in my car, plugged the address into my phone and made my way down to him. I notified my coworker, who I know stays up really late, and filled her in on what I was doing and where I was going, just to be safe. As soon as I arrived, he was sitting along the curb next to the resort's welcome sign. I drove past him and I got so excited, because he looked just as beautiful in person, as he did in his photos.

The moment I got out of my car, I said his name and he popped up from the curb and walked towards me with the most heart-melting smile. If that wasn't enough, he began talking and his accent literally paralyzed me for a moment. We hugged and we sat down on the sidewalk and began talking and getting to know each other.

After about ten minutes of asking the initial, generic questions, I suggested we walk onto the beach. That was the best idea of the night, because it was so gorgeous out. We flicked our sandals off and walked over to a spot in the sand, about 30 feet from the water. The breeze felt amazing, the stars were shining so bright and I was sitting in the sand next to this beautiful guy.

After about ten more minutes of talking, he asked if he could kiss me. I blurted out "what?!" instead of "yes" and made this guy ask again haha

Of course I said yes and our lips locked. His lips were really soft, but in about 1.5 seconds, kissing turned into a  full-blown make out session on the beach. It was awesome. His body was literally like a rock of solid muscle and abs, but he wasn't cocky or egotistical at all.

Things got very steamy last night. Every time we'd take a moment from kissing/doing other stuff, I'd laugh and he'd go "Que? What's wrong?", in his sexy Spanish suave accent, which made me laugh harder.

I tried some new things last night and it turned out to be such an awesome night, one that I'll never forget. 2016 is teaching me that life is about stepping out of your comfort zone, having safe fun and learning & growing from your experiences.

Much love guys


  1. OMB, I'd be scared to death! I like your "safe plan"; you use your brains just in case. I am happy you are experiencing all like has to offer. smooches from granny cougar!

    1. I was a little nervous, especially once we started getting physical, but I think my excitement and hormones outweighed my fear. I've been so prude for years now, and it wasn't until very recently, that I felt ready and comfortable to go one dates and meet guys. I think it's partially because I have a job now and I'm in a better place financially.

      I hope I'll continue to grow, learn and become a better person as I enter this new chapter of my life. And who knows, maybe I'll meet a guy that's boyfriend material :)

      Thanks for the input GC!

  2. That's awesome man, I'm glad you had such a great experience! Where can I find a muscly Crossfit trainer . . . :)

    1. Thanks man, I'm happy my first time ended up being fun with no regrets! Try a Crossfit gym...or Tinder haha

  3. Jealous! I want a sexy Latino haha. So did you get to have your first real life brush with foreskin? Lol

  4. Hey! Any news about that gay? It seemed so perfect! I really like your blog, good job, keep posting!
    Where are you living in Florida?

    1. No haha this guy was simply a hookup. A one time thing.

      Thank you for checking out my blog, I'm glad you like it! :))

      I live in South Florida