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Do they make you feel good? Do they keep you aroused? When they perform certain acts, does it continue to make you feel good and aroused, or are you bored by it? If you've never had sex, you probably have a lot of illusions about what it will be like - once you've had sex with a few different people, you will understand.
AGD: Whether you enjoyed it or not. Porn does create expectations but you should keep an open mind about the things you like and those you are willing to try.
Sounds like you should be playing GuysKeepScore.com.
You'll know the difference once you start sleeping around, if you ever get to do that, but seeing as you're young with a lot of life to live, you will probably sleep with a whole bunch of guys...and some of them will know how to do things more than others, there is absolutely a difference.On another note, the better sex is usually with someone you trust and care about (vice versa) more than random anonymous hookup. With that said, random anonymous hookups can be great sex, but on the whole, the "make love" not "fuck" thing is better.
Your talking about saving yourself, and no cheap hookups, so I would suggest that you probably will have not so good sex the first time due to nerves/excitement on one or both your parts. However, being a bit older than you I can tell you...hot passionate rip your clothes off jump into bed and satisfying is something you should save for the one you love. Jacking off with another dude in a car is not going to be satisfying.
this coming from a guy on long island that sleeps with everyone that he can.
yeah. I know that guy too( biwatch69). He has a boyfriend and HAS been with an aweful lot of people.