I think I'm scared to have sex. I don't know how to explain it. Obviously I'm old enough to be having sex, but I don't feel ready. I need your help. I want everyone's opinion on this topic and what it was like for you when you lost your virginity. Its super scary for me and any type of insight would be extremely appreciated.
Q #1 Are one night stands and random hookups fun/worth it? Or is it worth the wait to lose it with a boyfriend?
Q#2 Or should I wait until marriage? That's a really long time though. The Bible says to wait.
Q#3 What impact does sex for the first time have on the mind?
Q#4 How do you know if you're a top or a bottom?
Q#5 How bad does it hurt when you bottom for the first time? How much lube do you have to use?
Q#6 Do you cum after 10 seconds the first few times you have sex?
I just want my first time to be something meaningful and enjoyable for me and the other guy.